Change the shirt, try a different makeup ensemble, or even subject a person to plastic surgery.   Our physical appearance is a source of constant investment.  Who does it help?   Others?  Or yourself? While the outward façade may indeed fool a few people, we know that 55% of what makes us “likable” to others, is all the unspoken language. That is why authentic, sincere, honest caring is almost impossible to fake.  We feel it.  It is the “Blink” that Gladwell documents in his writing. This TLC, love, and caring is powerful.  The body responds with waves of PEA, oxytocin, and dopamine
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