Change the shirt, try a different makeup ensemble, or even subject a person to plastic surgery. Our physical appearance is a source of constant investment. Who does it help? Others? Or yourself?
While the outward façade may indeed fool a few people, we know that 55% of what makes us “likable” to others, is all the unspoken language.
That is why authentic, sincere, honest caring is almost impossible to fake. We feel it. It is the “Blink” that Gladwell documents in his writing.
This TLC, love, and caring is powerful. The body responds with waves of PEA, oxytocin, and dopamine without any conscious effort on our part.
While there is a continual effort to fake others out, there is a jury at work that that constantly washes the environment for authenticity. All the strategic planning can’t overcome culture.
Change your clothes may help. Customer Service training that gives skills that channel the heart are a must.
Changing your heart will inpact ALL those around you. It is impossible to fake love.
The natural and true nature of the human soul is always judged in the end.
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